Jacob Verses Laban
Genesis 29:15–20 (NASB95)
15Then Laban said to Jacob, “Because you are my relative, should you therefore serve me for nothing? Tell me, what shall your wages be?” 16Now Laban had two daughters; the name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17And Leah’s eyes were weak, but Rachel was beautiful of form and face. 18Now Jacob loved Rachel, so he said, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” 19Laban said, “It is better that I give her to you than to give her to another man; stay with me.” 20So Jacob served seven years for Rachel and they seemed to him but a few days because of his love for her.
Laban’s character stands out as he interacts with Jacob. He frames his offer as generosity, but he has already put Jacob to work for a month without pay. This echoes his earlier attempt to delay Abraham’s servant for his own benefit. Laban sees Jacob’s need and uses it for personal gain. He quickly accepts Jacob’s offer of seven years’ labor for Rachel, knowing it is a bargain for himself. Laban’s words sound reasonable, but his actions reveal a pattern of self-interest and manipulation.
A clear contrast emerges between Laban and Jacob. Laban pursues his own advantage, using family ties as tools for profit. He is willing to exploit and deceive to get what he wants. Jacob, despite his own past mistakes, works within God’s plan. He is motivated by love and commitment. Jacob’s willingness to serve seven years for Rachel shows his devotion. The text notes that the years seemed like only a few days to him because of his love. Jacob’s endurance and faithfulness stand in sharp relief to Laban’s selfishness.
Laban’s behavior offers a warning. Those who pursue themselves will find ways to use, distract, and derail those working for God’s plan. They may use family obligations, cultural expectations, or financial pressures to get their way. Laban’s tactics are still seen today. He makes his advantage look like your benefit. He exploits vulnerable moments and presents selfish demands as reasonable.
The church must learn from Jacob’s example. Stay focused on God’s calling, even when others try to take advantage. Do not let anyone pull you away from the plan God has for you. Endure unfair treatment if needed, but do not abandon your divine purpose.